Being single again makes me think about a lot of things. Pondering getting into a new relationship makes me think about even more. In all of my thinking, analyzing, pondering, and evaluating, out loud of course, a friend offered up a CD conference by Alison Armstrong. This has pretty much blown my mind so I'm attaching a link to her website and the specific CD's that I've listened to Twice now.
http://www.understandmen.com/products/insync.html
She goes into the fundamental and instinctual differences between men and women. It describes how we think and react differently in relationships. She also is very specific about how our unique (and outdated) survival instincts get in the way of having happy relationships. It was VERY eye opening for me to hear lots of things that I've never been aware of before...it really explained a lot of my totally unconscious behaviors. It also helped me to see how my body, instinct and chemistry has been working against my conscious intentions. I don't think I ever realized that I even had instinct influencing my behaviors, in fact, I thought I had complete control of my actions and emotions. Just another thing that I can finally accept at this point since I'm letting go of control...
ANYWAY... if you feel so inclined...this specific set is great for dating and newer relationships, but she has other CDs that can also help people that are in current long term relationships or married. The more we understand each other, the more chance we have to let our human spirit, and therefore our potential happiness, out! We ALL deserve to be completely happy and satisfied in our relationships and we will not have to settle if we simply adjust our thinking about things.
Cheers to spreading information that can help relieve the suffering in dating!!
Dating sense!
Jess
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