After last nights post, I had some interesting thoughts come up. It seems very random but it brought to the surface the right and wrong about doing things...I used Theta to clear a bunch of beliefs about my definition of being and doing wrong and I felt a whole lot better.
Interestingly, Today I realized that I had probably thousands of "ideas" about what LOVE actually is...and even last night I had no idea that this was the case.
I had a definition of do's and don'ts for correctly loving someone. Love is being nice. Love isn't being mean. Love is protecting someone's feelings. Love isn't being selfish. And on and on and on..... I had to get rid of my definitions of WRONG for me to see I had these rigid ideas about Love.
Theta helped me to release these ideas and find clarity!
Defining Love puts a HUGE amount of pressure, on myself, but also on my expectations for how I'm supposed to be treated by the person that loves me. Those descriptions were actually limitations on what I can and can't have in my life IF I want love. It made love into something that needs sacrifice in order to have it. This got me to thinking how much we ALL do this to ourselves. We get into relationships and call it love if we Feel like sacrificing ourselves for the other person. The ego part of me liked sacrificing because I was earning the love that had so many requirements of me. I wrote off the heartache with compassion for my partner. Besides that, I measured the love I received based on my definitions of it too. All of those specifications can really limit experiencing love for what it is....
UNCONDITIONAL... UNDEFINED....UNLIMITED.... and FREE.
Here's to my next experience being THIS LOVE...
Love finally makes sense.
Jess
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